Many of the abbreviations used in chats have pretty much become universal and a lot have become creatively humorous thanks to many regulars in those chat rooms.
I am often asked, "How much does it cost to run a web site?
Here you can compare price structure, software language, support for hosting and see if the software is actively being improved. Com is currently using 123Flash Chat but the continuing need to patch the software is making us weight our options.
We are looking at software packages on this page as well as a privately developed option which should be available to us in the near future.
This means you can probably find the software available for download but more likely you are going to want to rent its use from a larger chat site because of known exploits in the software which must be patched.
Because some the software code has been obfuscated it is impossible to make some changes and difficult to make others.